My paternal great grandmother, Bessie May Schuster, was born in 1897 and was mighty short.

The family record says her grandfather was “always a Republican but has never held office, nor was he a member of any church.” In 1904, when she was 7, her young mother died, I think of disease. Bessie May had a rural education and the books say she “worked out” until her marriage.

Bessie May Shuster Lent and John Lent
Bessie May Shuster Lent and John Lent

In 1916, at age 19, Bessie May Schuster married John Lent, a member of the Church of Latter Day Saints (Mormon) and a farmer who was much taller and 9 years older. They created a life together on a farm in Mid-Michigan.

On August 18, 1920 (95 years ago today), at age 23, Bessie May got the right to vote through the passing and ratification of the 19th Amendment to the U.S. Bill of Rights.

In 1921, she had her first child, who died a few days later. In 1924 and 1926, she gave birth to her two living children, including my grandfather, who quit school after eighth grade to work the farm.

In the 1920s and 1930s, she kept voting and cutting out excerpts from the newspaper including…

Married in gray, you will go far away.

Married in black, you will wish yourself back.

Married in brown, you will live out strong.

Married in red, you will wish yourself dead.

Married in pearl, you will live in a whirl.

Married in green, ashamed to be seen.

Married in yellow, ashamed of your fellow.

Married in blue, he will always be true.

Married in pink, your spirits will sink.

Married in white, you have chosen right.

and Depression-era economic news:

Ordinary business prudence suggested that the causes be definitely located. / Recent investigations have shown that the two great sources of loss to the postal revenues are second-class mail matter and rural delivery.

In 1942, Bessie May’s daughter got married, and a year later, her own father was accidentally killed while crossing the street.

In the 1950s-60s, her son and his very-Catholic wife moved their family to the inner-city because of his work at the automobile plant. Young Stevie Wonder was the neighbor. Bessie May’s grandchildren (including my father) became among only a handful of White students at a predominantly Black inner-city school.

Bessie May and John remained out at the farm. She never used a bank again, and kept the family dollars and bonds stuffed in boxes, mattresses and whatever she could hide well. Her grandboys (my dad and uncle) would return every summer to work the fields.

The grandkids grew up, some graduated high school, all married and moved as close to the ‘burbs as they could afford. In 1966, Bessie May and John had a big hoopty-dee-doo for their 50th anniversary.

Happy 50th!
Happy 50th!

In 1976, John  died and she stayed independently at the farm and hired local guys to plant and harvest the corn and beans.

In April 1978, two months before I was born, Bessie May (age 81) clipped this from the local paper and kept it in her scrapbook, pasted among the hundreds of birth, death and marriage notices…

As a farmer’s wife, I wish to express my thought’s on high food prices. The first point I would make is — the farmer does not have a word to say about the price he receives for the products he raises on his land. Supply and demand is one factor and weather and sales to other countries are other factors. We cannot say “I want such and such a price as I have this much money in invested in producing whatever I have for sale.” We take what is offered. This may be only the beginning of what is to come. How many of our young boys will stay on the farms? Food companies have already gained control in the broiler and egg industry. Huge feedlots are forcing small feeders out of business. / There must be a way to live in harmony. After all, we are all cogs in the wheel which makes our existence possiple. – Mrs. John Bohil of Oakley, Michigan

In the 1980s, rumors started to surface of abuse inside the family. Sexual, physical, or mental, I was never sure. We saw this side of the family rarely, but I did like “Little Grandma” very much. There were struggles with finances and trust amongst my dad’s siblings and parents, which would start to heal during the weddings and funerals to come.

In 1987, at age 90, Bessie May hoped to attend the Michigan Peace March for Global Nuclear Disarmament.

The Michigan Peace March for Global Nuclear Disarmament (from Sault Ste. Marie on May 31 to Detroit on August 9) is not a spectator event! We need the participation of everyone who wishes to stand up and be counted. We are asking for 1. Test Ban, 2. Nuclear Weapons Freeze, 3. Reduction to Zero, and 4. Economic Conversion. No one is more intereted in protecting you and your loved ones than you are. Your particular view of the world, the things you can do, the people you know, your work — all make you able to work for global nuclear disarmament in your own special way.

In 1988, when I as 9, her Alzheimer’s became severe. I didn’t know much about her and thought her to be a poor farmer, probably uneducated, definitely not political.

My grandparents moved back in with Bessie May at the farm. Together, they became hoarders to a jaw-dropping level. My grandparents had her join them in the National Campers & Hikers Association -Family Campers & RVers (FCRV) and Golden Agers Club.

In 1996, she walked away and roamed the countryside looking for her cows. She was found down the road, curled-up, nearly naked. I was a freshman in college out-of-state.

They put a bell on the door to hear if she ever left the house again.

In 1998, at age 100, Bessie May Schuster Lent died.

In August 2015, I found her scrapbook unearthed a treasure of inspiration, thanking the 19th Amendment for what it unearthed in both our lives.

Bessie Mae and a bottle and a friend.
Bessie Mae and a bottle and a friend.
Treasures from Bessie Mays Lovingly Unorganized Scrapbook
Treasures from Bessie Mays Lovingly Unorganized Scrapbook
Great great great grandparents: Sophia Frank Runyan and Samuel Runyan
Bessie May’s grandparents: Samuel Runyan (1833- 1915) and Sophia Frank, who outlived her husband and lived 12 years of her mighty life with the right to vote.

 

 

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